i love my mom. really. a lot, actually. i’m grateful that she’s allowed me to move back in with her and provides me with a place to stay and food to eat. the problem with my mom and i isn’t me, and it isn’t her. the problem is that our relationship is based on very strong attachment, meanwhile we struggle to establish connection. i’m not really sure where i’m going with this, aside from saying that healthy relationships are based on connection and not on unhealthy sorts attachment. i have no art for you today, just thoughts and words. i guess i just want to share my journey because maybe if i can learn from a mistake or any part of my journey, someone else can too.